Why do you want to learn how to maintain good relations less than those who are eager to be able to masterfully get acquainted and make a profitable impression?

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  1. In order to take a desire / goal “learn to maintain good relations”, you must first these same relations (love, friendly, partnerships, etc.): a) create; b) to stay in them for some time; c) to evaluate the process and the result (with the assessment of the process, by the way, often problems). If the process and the result are generally satisfied (that is, the good relations turned out to be), then the idea to learn them is unlikely to arise – and so, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all, after all everything is fine. Well, except that this person is very supported psychologically 🙂 If they are not satisfied, then an entry on a new circle will go – i.e. An attempt will be made to establish a new relationship. And so on until a person suggests that perhaps this is not an option “not lucky”, and he does something wrong, having already gained this relationship. And many people for a long time, or even never come to such an assumption. And they often come to the conclusion that it is necessary: ​​to increase the number of acquaintances in order to have more spare options; to strengthen work on the first impression (in the perception of many, this is not the most that you really are); try to surprise the partner more often in relationships (this, by the way, is very good – but it is difficult to stay in this mode forever; therefore, at some point the partner may stop getting what supported him in these relations). Already on the topic “masterfully get acquainted and make a profitable impression” : Here, after all, the whole industry works, from the “pickup” to conscientiously prepared trainings on self -presentation. And to sell the idea to a person that he needs to undergo training or a series of trainings in order to “masterfully get acquainted and make a profitable impression” is much easier than the idea that it would be nice to learn to hear, see and feel another person on his own; What is important to be able to negotiate, apologize, give in, share; And that learning of this kind is not at once. And then the Internet gives the illusion of the boundlessness of the choice, is it worth it to be surprised that many are focused on endless sorting out options, and not to work in a particular version? There is such a well -known phrase: “We must work on relationships.” In my opinion, she was tapped, so I try not to use it. But now, perhaps, just the case when it is worth doing 🙂 You can identify two more points, although this is no longer in line with the answer to your question. 1) Parts of people are not needed, a good long -term relationship. They, relatively speaking, are not enough for such a format. Therefore, it is quite happy to simply have a list of those with whom he masterfully met and made a profitable impression. 2) Over the past 10-15 years, many have appeared for whom live communication, especially offline, is a very big problem. And they have a priority task – to get acquainted. It seems to them that after this happens, everything will be wonderful. And the idea that the relationship must also be maintained is not yet particularly relevant.

  2. This itself is always amazing, but it probably is evolutionarily developing, it is necessary to hook, attract attention, and then figure out why)). This behavior is beneficial for men to expand the circle of potential distributors of their genes, and women have more the choice of applicants from which to choose the best. And then, after the choice, the task is to build more or less long-term relationships, but this, it turns out, is already the next step. Some further/all the time follow this strategy- those for whom the sign is of great importance, the image for whom it is more important to seem than to be, apparently, the nature is like that, for them it is significant, what they say, you need to be in the spotlight, look like “Worthy”, and maybe not so worried that you are smoked deeper, and there is nothing, the bubble was blown away .., it happens that it happens

  3. This itself is always amazing, but it probably is evolutionarily developing, it is necessary to hook, attract attention, and then figure out why)). This behavior is beneficial for men to expand the circle of potential distributors of their genes, and women have more the choice of applicants from which to choose the best. And then, after the choice, the task is to build more or less long-term relationships, but this, it turns out, is already the next step. Some further/all the time follow this strategy- those for whom the sign is of great importance, the image for whom it is more important to seem than to be, apparently, the nature is like that, for them it is significant, what they say, you need to be in the spotlight, look like “Worthy”, and maybe not so worried that you are smoked deeper, and there is nothing, the bubble was blown away .., it happens that it happens

  4. Because the first directly depends on the second. Without a acquaintance that interested a potential partner, there will be no relationship, which means that first you need to learn a good acquaintance, i.e. Interesting people with whom relations are planned, and then learn to maintain this relationship with good and kind.

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