What to do if you are ashamed of your orientation?

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  1. Study the works of Karl Gustav Yung (Anima and Animus). Each person initially contains two sexes, two energies (Yin and Yan). With age, by virtue of education, one of the aspects begins to prevail. For example, in infantile boys, anima develops more. When understanding the issue, one of the aspects can be consciously brought into the dominant one of the aspects.

  2. Study the works of Karl Gustav Yung (Anima and Animus). Each person initially contains two sexes, two energies (Yin and Yan). With age, by virtue of education, one of the aspects begins to prevail. For example, in infantile boys, anima develops more. When understanding the issue, one of the aspects can be consciously brought into the dominant one of the aspects.

  3. The same as you need to do when you are ashamed of something else. The significant difference here is only that the orientation cannot be changed and the advice is not to do what you are ashamed of here will not work. You can simply – not to advertise your orientation, carefully encryption, do not give yourself out, “do not go where you know”. To learn to “not be ashamed” – it is much more difficult, and it is unlikely that you can do it without third -party support. Yes, and in our, on average, homophobic country, without a number of problems, it will not do. Are there any strength and psychological readiness to solve them? If there are, and there are ready to mentally support – then this path is better than eternal encryption from everyone. The problem is with relatives: they are not chosen, and perhaps some of them will not want to come to terms. But this is your life, not them. If someone does not want to press you like you really are, then either eternal lie or cutting communication. Although in life they are far from as irreconcilable as it seems at the beginning. If they really love you, then over time they rejoice. And if their own prejudices are more expensive for them, well, “such as villagers”.

  4. PMSM! Change it to normal. All these things are in the hands of a person, do not listen to the tales of quasi -scientists. This form of behavior cannot be predetermined genetically. And it can be arbitrarily chosen and replaced. Moreover, the history of the question in primitive cultures and places of conclusion ask … However, the matter Your. But a feeling of shame tells you about the same, you yourself think that you are doing something wrong. We have a brain, consciousness, culture. We can choose between faithful and incorrect actions. If we choose the wrong (and we understand this)- it is a shame. In any case, the other hand, do not allow yourself to insult and humiliate on this soil, the incorrect orientation does not give the right to this to anyone. But do not shock others with vivid signs. Heteosexual. The whims demonstrates its sexuality, because it annoys extremely .. this is extremely .. this is extremely .. -in -intimate, closed part of life, taboo -in cultural societies.

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