How to stop envious?

Hello. I am listed in participants in one project. When I see the same project, but with a large number of participants, I begin to compare it with the project where I am listed. For example: we have few people, and there are many; There is more interesting, a lot of things, but we have so few. I also begin to find shortcomings, they say: they invested a lot of money in the project advertising, and we did everything with our efforts. At these moments, I begin to burst and apathy begins. Yes, of course I can move from another project to another, but not everything is so simple. I am one of the important persons there. If I leave and go to another project, then they will consider me a traitor. Help fight these feelings, I cannot control them!

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  1. I will not help to help with feelings, and you do not need to do it. The pseudo awareness, now broadcast on the Internet, suggests that you need to live without envy, anger, rejoice every day, etc. From the point of view of clinical psychology, a person without negative emotions raises questions. Watching envy is normal. Understanding the envy mechanism, you can control yourself. The briefness goes from comparing yourself with someone else. Many people were raised in comparison. Remember who compared you and with whom in childhood. You compare yourself with the initially not equal. This comparison leads to apathy. Here you need to return to reality and understand that such a comparison does not benefit. At the same time, it shows that you have great goals and ambitions. The briefness can be an assistant in achievements. Start with adequate steps of steps.

  2. Envy is a sin, jealousy (to someone else’s success, beauty or well -being), annoyance (bitter bewilderment, because the other has something better than you), greed (the desire of everything at once). This is a test of you from above, rethinking values. You are a thinking person, but have not yet grown spiritually. You make the same logical efforts similar to what I do within the framework of my capabilities in relation to the activities of HOAs i.e. free (4 years, and now I am 51 years old), more rational for achieving the goal (the victim of time is the price of the life lived, the creative thought of achieving the goal with the lowest costs of funds and time).
    I went out early, to the star;
    Clean and innocent hand
    In enslaved brus
    He threw a life -giving seed –
    But I lost only time
    Good thoughts and labors … Grive, peaceful peoples!
    You will not be awakened by honor.
    What are the herds of the gifts of freedom?
    They should cut or cut them.
    Their inheritance from the genus to childbirth
    Yarmo with Gremushki and Beach. “1823, Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkinv Pushkin’s poems, the fact that you will spend time time, but you will gain experience by losing faith. You are in a state of depression, look at the conversation of the modern priest Grigory Grigoryev https: // yandex. Ru/Video/Preview/1293973539848456707 can help you.

  3. Envy is a sin, jealousy (to someone else’s success, beauty or well -being), annoyance (bitter bewilderment, because the other has something better than you), greed (the desire of everything at once). This is a test of you from above, rethinking values. You are a thinking person, but have not yet grown spiritually. You make the same logical efforts similar to what I do within the framework of my capabilities in relation to the activities of HOAs i.e. free (4 years, and now I am 51 years old), more rational for achieving the goal (the victim of time is the price of the life lived, the creative thought of achieving the goal with the lowest costs of funds and time).
    I went out early, to the star;
    Clean and innocent hand
    In enslaved brus
    He threw a life -giving seed –
    But I lost only time
    Good thoughts and labors … Grive, peaceful peoples!
    You will not be awakened by honor.
    What are the herds of the gifts of freedom?
    They should cut or cut them.
    Their inheritance from the genus to childbirth
    Yarmo with Gremushki and Beach. “1823, Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkinv Pushkin’s poems, the fact that you will spend time time, but you will gain experience by losing faith. You are in a state of depression, look at the conversation of the modern priest Grigory Grigoryev https: // yandex. Ru/Video/Preview/1293973539848456707 can help you.

  4. Oh, well, this is a rather time -consuming and complex process. If, for example, there are few people in your project, then try to attract someone else, and if there is little interesting, then try to come up with yourself, attract your own for this. Start also work on improving your project and compare yesterday’s results with the current ones. But do not try to compare with other projects.

  5. Envy is negative emotions, from the successes of others. Follow your own no successes – not envy. Ground is to be angry with other people’s successes. What is your motive for comparison? Why are you comparing your project? Even large media holdings can compete. Toyota and Ford compete (conditionally). It is difficult to advise something. In general, as I understand it, the envious do not want their own. They just feel bad from a stranger. Example: outside the window, a neighbor is sitting in a car that I dream about. I have my preferences in cars. Because if the neighbor sits in the “Machine of my dreams”, I can want the same. But “my dream” has no binding to a neighbor. My dream is produced by a large circulation and thousands of people ride around the world. I can envy them all ???))) is stupid. The maximum that I will do is admire the car what I like and I will be glad if he puts it under my window. Therefore, I just do not care that my neighbor has such a car. I admire the car. And the envious failures: in fact, deeply, they simply do not have their own desires. No specifics. They themselves do not know: what they want. Therefore, they reflect on everything they will see. They want “everything and nothing specifically.” But it’s very bad that others have something ”… ‍♂️ You are just a hired person for money. For you this project is not a child. Therefore, you compare. You are empty to the project. They are not attached. If you compete with others, what to do? Sufferer. These are about spiritual phenomena. You are so. Inside yourself. It doesn’t matter where you will work and the successes of your project. You have chosen a dark, empty path. The path of suffering. Loose garlic and not compete, do not compete, Having fallen in love with your project as your child (if it is possible in the cloud where your feelings brought you to work), or suffer, harm competitors, etc. In general, roll into the funnel of darkness.

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