Do I need to make attempts to meet after a quarrel, etc.?

The girl does not make contact much. It may be busy, coupled with resentment. Do she need to sign it? Like, let’s go there, come here. How is everything good and so on. In short, as if nothing was. Or you need to leave alone for a few days.

What do you think?

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  1. Much depends on the essence of the quarrel. If she has something to be offended, and you allowed something during the quarrel, for which they are to blame, then to pretend “as if there was nothing” is not good. At first you need to apologize and correct the deed. If you are clean like a baby, and she cured, it is also strange to make this look. Then you should wait for her apology. Of course, in both cases, the outcome depends on whether this relationship is needed for each of you. The one who does not need can break them without taking steps / without answering. And “as if there was nothing” – the worst strategy of the possible. Even if it “works” a couple of times, in the long term the relationship will destroy this. Conflicts must be clarified and completed, and not silence.

  2. It is important to understand that when making attempts to rapprocheone after a quarrel, you can get a response, at least an interest to talk and find out a relationship, or a refusal. And then you decide: whether to make more attempts and with what content. Two participate in relations. If one takes a step towards, and the other does not even turn in his direction, this means that the second, either does not want these relationships anymore, or he has the need to punish his partner with indifference, and then give in, or encouraging his partner to take a step more and more , in such a crooked way to understand how much he (a) is needed (a) and significant (a), or does not want to pour accumulated feelings and give himself time to cool down. Other reasons are possible. What does your girlfriend want, ignoring the contacts: to part, punish, feel that she is significant for you, or think about something? You can find out if you directly ask it about it by at least text messages.

  3. It is important to understand that when making attempts to rapprocheone after a quarrel, you can get a response, at least an interest to talk and find out a relationship, or a refusal. And then you decide: whether to make more attempts and with what content. Two participate in relations. If one takes a step towards, and the other does not even turn in his direction, this means that the second, either does not want these relationships anymore, or he has the need to punish his partner with indifference, and then give in, or encouraging his partner to take a step more and more , in such a crooked way to understand how much he (a) is needed (a) and significant (a), or does not want to pour accumulated feelings and give himself time to cool down. Other reasons are possible. What does your girlfriend want, ignoring the contacts: to part, punish, feel that she is significant for you, or think about something? You can find out if you directly ask it about it by at least text messages.

  4. It is important to understand whose fault the quarrel occurred. If the quarrel occurred through your fault. This is your misconduct. If the goal is to restore relations, misconduct needs to be compensated. Depending on its severity, there may be not only an apology. If the misconduct was on the side of the partner. Or, according to the context of the quarrel, it is clear that the partner does not want to see you. Ask yourself the question for what purpose do you climb to a person who does not want to see you? From an understanding of the context of the situation and it will be clear what further steps you need to take. The main criterion here is respect for the partner and his will.

  5. Immediately: conflicts are growth points, if they understand them.
    Let me cool first. Dark yourself and your feelings, reactions regarding the situation.
    After that, it is worth looking for contact, only from an adult position. “Small itself!” – This is about the children’s position.
    Contact is not looking for a guilty or gender man. Contact in the conflict is looking for a more conscious partner. And here, too, without a gender.

  6. Hello reader. It is difficult to answer your question, you need to know the true cause of your quarrel and who is first of all to blame. The first is what needs to be done if the wine is completely on you, to withstand for some time. In no case do not bother with calls, just wait for time. In most cases, it works, the girl gradually begins to thaw and everything falls into place. But it works in cases where there are really feelings between you. But if you look from the other side that you are strangers to each other, then it’s easier to part because the subsequent quarrels are inevitable. More interesting on this topic in my blog Love230284.Biogspot.com

  7. All people quarrel. This is the usual process of crisis situations in communication. From quarrels, you need to learn to get out with an increase in further relationships, i.e. – Go to a new level of trust and understanding of a loved one. If you intend to continue to take care of the girl, then you need to make attempts to establish relationships and achieve a meeting. To pretend, “as if nothing was” – stupid and infantile. You both know what happened. It costs nothing to write – ineffective tactics, and in some ways cowardly. You need to communicate in the eyes of your beloved. Observing her reaction to your words. If you are guilty, learn to look for words for apology, give something to improve the mood of the girl, agree on the future. was. If so, there is a prospect of positive changes. If not, such situations will be repeated again and again, and spoil your blood. The reconciliation time is sure to wait for the girl’s words that the apologies are accepted. This is important. If the girl offended you before taking some steps to meet you think about what could cause her discontent. You can also ask directly: does she want to continue relations? You cannot change another person. If her rudeness or act was provoked by your behavior – disassemble everything on the shelves, agree – how you change. But it may be an option that in principle, she does not want to continue relations – she needs another person. Or is it her constant manner of behavior, which will infuriate you all the time. Then decide for yourself – you need it in life, or it is better to go further and leave it alone. Actually, in order to recognize each other, people and meet for several months, establish friendship to understand whether they are suitable for each other and whether it is worth switching to a closer level of communication or better part. This is the search path that every man should go through while he meets his soulmate. At least three things will tell you if your couple, in principle, has prospects for long -term relationships, which you should really fight for: Three secrets … Good luck and love! ____ My articles about relationships can be read here: 7Yui Join our group in VK: Seeds Highway

  8. It is important to understand that all quarrels occur due to your inability to control their emotions, intelligence, body, internal processes. I have sandpaper. Do you know what sandpaper is? What I would apply to it, she will create a certain friction. So you have. If you change yourself, become more smooth, you will definitely create less friction, even with another sandpaper. In general, people with high friction should be avoided. If you can change them, this is wonderful. Therefore, before looking for a compromise with life, find a balance between life energies within yourself. Then the outside world will radically change for you.

  9. “It was as if there was nothing” and everything will resolve itself – this is a manipulation, an attempt to evade responsibility and ignoring the girl’s needs. It is more correct to calmly discuss the reasons for the quarrel and resolve the conflict with a mutual benefit option. If the girl is self -sufficient, then neither signing nor “as if there was nothing” will not change ignore in your direction.

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